Why Does God Give Some People Children, Yet Not Provide The Financial Ability To Care For Them?
As Messianic Jewish believers, we strive to understand God’s ways and how they align with His perfect will. One of the most perplexing questions many parents, and those hoping to become parents, wrestle with is: Why does God give some people children, yet not provide the financial means to take care of them? This question is not only relevant for today’s world but also deeply rooted in the journey of faith and trust in God’s provision.
In this article, we will explore what Scripture has to say about God’s provision, the purpose of children, and how Messianic Jewish believers can find peace and assurance in God’s promises.
The Gift of Children: A Divine Blessing
Children are a precious gift from God, as the psalmist writes:
“Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb a reward” (Psalm 127:3).
This verse highlights that children are not a burden but a reward—a divine blessing entrusted to parents. In the Tanakh, God repeatedly emphasizes the importance of children in His covenant with Israel. He promised Abraham that his descendants would be as numerous as the stars in the sky (Genesis 15:5).
Yet, for many believers today, the joy of having children often comes with the heavy burden of financial responsibility. So, why would a loving God give a gift that feels so difficult to support?
God’s Provision in the Midst of Struggle
The reality of life is that not everyone has the financial means to provide for their family. But Scripture assures us that God is aware of our needs and will provide. Yeshua Himself spoke about God’s faithful provision, saying:
“Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?” (Matthew 6:25).
While this verse comes from the Gospels, it echoes the deep, covenantal promises found throughout the Tanakh. God has always been the Provider for His people, whether through manna in the desert or the faithfulness He showed to the patriarchs.
When you feel overwhelmed by financial difficulties, remember that God is not distant or unaware of your struggles. His promise to provide for those who trust in Him is clear throughout Scripture.
“The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters.” (Psalm 23:1-2).
This verse speaks to the very essence of God’s provision: He provides, not just materially, but in all aspects of life. When we struggle financially, we are reminded to trust in Him for our needs and to seek His guidance.
The Purpose Behind Parenthood
There’s a deeper purpose behind the gift of children that goes beyond mere financial provision. In the Messianic Jewish faith, we believe that children play a vital role in the ongoing covenant between God and His people. Just as God entrusted Israel with the responsibility of passing on His commandments to future generations, so too do parents have the sacred duty of nurturing and raising their children in the ways of the Lord.
“And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.” (Deuteronomy 6:6-7).
Even in the face of financial challenges, parents are called to raise their children with love, faith, and instruction in God’s Word. The goal is not just to meet physical needs, but to create an environment where children can grow in their knowledge and love for God.
God often uses challenging circumstances to build our faith and character. Perhaps financial struggle is a way God is teaching parents—and us as individuals—to rely on Him more deeply. When we do not have all the answers or the resources we think we need, we are forced to seek Him for provision, wisdom, and strength.
Trusting in God’s Timing and His Plan
Sometimes, we must trust in God’s timing, even when it feels difficult. There may be seasons of financial hardship, but those seasons are not permanent. In the same way that Israel endured times of wandering and lack, they were ultimately brought into a land of abundance. God’s plans often unfold over time, and His provision comes in ways we might not always expect.
“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” (Jeremiah 29:11).
This promise of hope and a future applies not only to the nation of Israel but to all of God’s people, including Messianic believers. When you trust in God’s plan, even when you can’t see the way forward, He will provide what you need, at the right time, and in the right way.
Finding Peace Amidst the Struggle
When faced with financial strain, it’s easy to feel anxious, defeated, or even hopeless. But God calls us to trust in His peace and provision, especially in times of difficulty.
“Cast your burden on the LORD, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved.” (Psalm 55:22).
God’s peace transcends our understanding. He doesn’t promise an absence of trials, but He promises to be with us through them. For Messianic Jewish believers, this means finding comfort in the fact that God is faithful to His promises, and He is near to the brokenhearted.
Conclusion: Trusting God with Our Families
The question of why some people are given children but not the financial ability to care for them is a challenging one. But through Scripture, we learn that God provides in ways that are beyond our comprehension. Children are a gift, and God will provide the grace, wisdom, and resources necessary to fulfill the call of parenthood.
If you are struggling with the financial demands of parenthood, take heart. Trust in God’s provision and timing. Raise your children in faith, knowing that God is with you every step of the way. His love and His plan for your life—and the lives of your children—are greater than any financial challenge you may face.
“And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Messiah Yeshua.” (Philippians 4:19).
But as Messianic believers, we can rest assured that God, in His infinite wisdom, provides not just in material ways, but spiritually, emotionally, and relationally, for the sake of His covenant people.